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glasmond:

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Excuse me if this sounds rude, but I really have to say it:
It really is a nice idea to make some nice things for MissCherry while she is in coma, but do you really need to take a pic of holding her hand while she is sleeping? To me this is almost the same like filming someone getting punched and kicked instead of calling the cops. (And sorry to say but it looks like attention-whoring. Why would you take such a pic if not to show people: “Ohhh look, I am so sad my gf is in coma … but yay, I can take a pic anyways!” It is like taking a selfie infront of a car-accident, I mean… WHY? A pic of just her would’ve been enough to start the PrayForMissCherry-campaign. Do you really think she would want that???)
Plus: She is just in coma (still just my personal opinion) because you felt like you should post naked-pics of her. Otherwise she maybe would’ve  never gotten that stalker-asshole.

((And if you feel like you need to call me names now, just because I tell you my personal opinion, it shows me that you can’t be a nice person at all.))


I wish Miss Cherry all the best btw.


Assumptions, assumptions.

Let me tell you one thing about assumptions, dear Souly: They can make even the most honest person a terrible asshole. (“Look, she’s just telling her boyfriend that often that she loves him because she wants to make me jealous!”)

MissCherry has many friends around the world who hold her dear and feel for her. And I wanted to give them a little sign that she is not alone. Something for them to hold on to. 

It’s not like I was, like, one minute in the hospital while she needed first aid, like in your examples. I am several hours with her, every day, holding her hand, unable to do anything but being there. 

The picture means a lot to me, and more importantly, to her friends who can do nothing to help her. They are grateful to know what’s going on with her, to see that somebody is with her. You seem to be the only one who claims to wish her the best but isn’t happy to see this proof of hope and support. You bother more about the motivations of the person who took the picture. And more importantly - you can’t even imagine why somebody would do that except for attentionwhoring. What does that tell us about you?

And, yes, I KNOW that she would be grateful for that. As much as I know that she wouldn’t want me to take a full picture of her or to let people visit her in that state except for her very best friends and her family. I am her lover, after all, and I deeply respect her and do my best to let her shine. She trusts me with her life. She trusts me that I make the right decisions when she’s unable too.

The stalker was there long before I posted those pictures of her. Which aren’t nude distasteful porn shit btw, but pictures which make her finally feel alright with her disease (her big belly) and even make her feel proud of her belly. Those pictures made her tearing up because of luck and happiness. 
But sure, go with your great assumptions! She’s in coma because I posted nudes without asking her! This is massive judging and finger-pointing and shaming you are doing to me. Massive.

When you really think of me that way, do me a favor and never ever talk to me again. 

Your - sorry but - simply stupid assumptions are shallow and hurtful. Like somebody who says “Hah, she was a prostitute, no wonder she got murdered!” or “Ha, he got divorced, no wonder his ex killed herself”. You are saying “Ha, she posted naked pictures of herself, no wonder she got a stalker!”

It’s like people like you NEED to think bad of somebody so that they can take that bad things happen to them. They  want to believe that every bad thing that happens is deserved. 

But even if all of your assumptions were true - why would you accuse me of such things anyway? Isn’t there enough stress already? And if you really care for her even a little - shouldn’t you, well, care more about her than trying to hurt the girl on her side? 

And btw, it’s pretty disrespectful of you to say “It’s your fault because you posted the pictures of her” like she is way too weak to decide for herself if she wants them uploaded or not.

((So, you can rumor me to be a complete selfish attention whore, but I am not allowed to call you names (which are my personal opinion, too, btw) without being a nice person at all? Maybe you should think about that. But sure, think of me as a bad person when it makes you feel better. I don’t need affection from shallow minds like you.))

Edit: I am sorry for that long wall of text, but I have gotten enough such messages in the last days and just now found the strengh to answer to that.

While I am overwhelmed by all the support and feel truly blessed, I stumbled across this entry while looking through my girlfriends tumblr and since it’s about me I felt like I need to say something about it because I can not let you hurt her like this. I will keep this short because typing is still hard on my fingers because my muscles have degenerated so badly during my time in the coma.


I think that taking this picture and publishing it totally was the right thing to do. So many people where involved and worried for me, the photo really gave them something to hold onto in this horrible situation. Also, I don’t feel violated by the photo at all. More like the contrary, it’s a lovely picture and radiates positivity for some reason. I actually have it printed out and it sits on my windowsil in my hospital room here!
Glasmond did a good thing for me by taking and posting the photo. It hurts me deeply that some people seem to think it was a very bad thing to do and that they felt the need to attack her for that :|
She knows me so well and would have known if I would not have been ok with a photo like that.

Glasmond, thank you for all you have done (and are still doing) for me during this time of hardship. You are the most wonderful soul and I could not wish for a better girlfriend by my side. In case you did - don’t feel bad about the photo. You know I love it and how man people it helped and how many where touched by it.

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Announcement: Private Retreat

glasmond:

Hey guys.

Because of the the heavy stalking and impersonating problems since almost one year, MissCherry, Schpog and I decided to retreat from the internet. 

Maybe we’ll still reblog things once in a while, but we won’t post any private pictures and opinions anymore. Maybe we will shut down our tumblrs completly.

Please don’t expect any answers towards asks.
Sorry for the inconvenience, guys. I love you.

PS: Be careful when you find suspicious MissCherrys, Glasmonds and Schpogs on any platform. 

The three of us are tired of it. User Naveen7 wanted to get to know me better about 2 years ago but after I refused to give out my personal information, he got demanding and rude. Since then, he creates fake accounts, both coyping me and trying to get into my life pretending to be someone else (he created over 40 accounts so far). He keeps stealing everything he can get a hold of and even dragged my girlfriend into this. She is unable to get out of this hellish loop and is completely done with, too. 

I hope you are happy now, Naveen7.

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morgrana:

flippy-feelings:

Did you ever realize how much your body loves you? It’s always trying to keep you alive. It’s making sure you breathe while you sleep, stopping cuts from bleeding, fixing broken bones, finding ways to beat the illnesses that might get you. Your body literally loves you so much. It’s time you start loving it back.

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Anonymous asked: I just wondered, if you got my "Ask". Don't want to stress you, but I would be much calmer if I knew you received it. If not, here's the Link to the Google Doc: docs google com/document/d/1jJ1TQwA17He21ewyTjV9Eu7Vvtu_ZTTmKkJp_3I4QGs/edit?usp=sharing - Wish you a nice day anyways, stay like you are! :-)

glasmond:

Yes, I recieved it! Hadn’t had time to answer it yet, sadly. (I have quite a bunch of longer messages waiting here because they take way longer to answer, usually)

Have a nice day, too!

Guysies, look. I just want to give you a little heads up to the situation here.

We are running a store entirely by ourselves wich obviously exceeds the usual working times. We work all the time, in the morning, at night, on sundays. And apart from that, try to spend quality time together or with other friends. That means there is very little time left for other things, as sad as it might be.
Glas loves her followers and loves the interaction with them. However, she has over a thousand messages sitting in her inbox, waiting to be answered. I am not even exaggerating. Many people write her, a lot with urgent problems, wanting and needing help. And despite how much she loves to help, with all this work it is sometimes really hard to keep up and it pains her when she senses someone needs help and she can’t give it in time.
Please bear in mind: if you have very urgent problems, don’t rely on her to reply quickly. Please ;_; She gives her best and she loves to help and it pains her that she doesn’t have enough time to reply to all your messages!

Dear anon, I am not blaming you for asking wether she got your message or not, so don’t feel bad. I just used this opportunity to write a few words on the message situation :)

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